Answer: Love is not found but attracted to those who have prepared their vessel to be love-able.
In order to be loved, you must start by loving yourself. One who is love-able has spent the time getting clear on who they are and have value for what they have to offer to the world. Our inner-value reflects our outer-value. Until you can look yourself in the mirror and say, "I love you", don't expect anyone else to look you in the eye and tell you either.
For those searching for love within a relationship, one of the most profound questions I have ever heard was, "Would you date yourself?" But seriously, would you? It's imperative to stop pointing the blame finger. We cannot expect love and respect by others if we don't have love and respect for ourselves.
How do I begin to fall in love with myself? Sounds like a question for a future QOD :)
In being Love-Able, Brett J.
"You don't find love. Love finds you after you've cleared your conscience completely." - Dr. Sid E. Williams
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